Wow. Things sure
got tough for Silvia Zarate after she was falsely accused of child abuse. She had to fight her way through a long,
cumbersome appeals process before she could get overturned a determination by a
caseworker for the Washington State family police agency (a more accurate term
than “child welfare” agency) that the allegation against her was “founded.”
But, as the online news
site Investigate West explains:
Zarate’s ordeal
is far from finished, as she continues to struggle with her employment because
the abuse charge still comes up on background checks. She said she has wiped out
her retirement, gone into debt and has racked up more than $180,000 in attorney
fees fighting the abuse allegation.
She’s struggling
with employment because she was fired from her job. She also was criminally charged – charges
ultimately dismissed. As she explained
to Investigate West:
“Just because I
won doesn’t mean I recovered anything. I still have to go through all this
turmoil.”
Investigate West
goes on to tell us:
To Zarate, it
felt vindictive. She felt she was presumed guilty and needed to prove her
innocence rather than the opposite.
“They rushed to
judgment,” she said. “They didn’t really investigate it well.”
At last! A big mainstream news organization in
Washington State understands the enormous harm of false allegations, rushing to
judgment, sloppy investigations and no meaningful redress!
Well – not
quite.
And if you don’t know what’s
coming next, you don’t know either this Blog or
Investigate West. But here’s a hint: When it comes to
covering “child welfare,”
Investigate West isn’t really a news
organization at all – it’s the
de-facto p.r. arm of the Foster Parents
Association of Washington State.
You can read about some of their long, ugly
track record here.
So you’ve probably guessed: The only reason this falsely
accused parent got such sympathetic treatment – in fact, the only reason
Investigate West talked to her at all – is because she was a foster parent,
and the accuser was one of her foster children.
I don’t think this is primarily the reporter’s
fault. She’s relatively new to Investigate
West and this seems to be her first story about foster care. The fault lies mostly with her editors who,
at every turn, lionize foster parents and demonize birth parents.
As for Zarate,
there’s something else worth noting: The job from which she was fired was
caseworker for the state family police agency.
So when the story
ends with Zarate saying: “They have all the resources and us little people,
foster parents, we don’t have those kinds of resources,” she doesn’t just
forget who has even fewer resources – impoverished birth parents – she also
seems to forget that, until her ordeal began, she was an integral part
of “they.”
What Zarate endured
is, indeed, horrible. I hope she wins
the $9 million she is seeking from a state fund as compensation for her ordeal.
But it is only a
fraction of the trauma endured by poor families who don’t know the system from
the inside, and don’t have $180,000 for legal fees. But as we’ve seen over the years, Investigate
West views birth parents as, at worst, evil, at best sick! sick! sick! –
and certainly not worth talking to, much less doing an entire story about how
they are guilty until proven innocent.
And while the story
mentions only the suffering Zarate endured, when this happens to birth families
those who suffer most are the children – often traumatized by needless investigations
and stripsearches at best, consignment to the chaos of foster care at worst.
Nor does this story
include the usual “Big Lie” of American child welfare that always turns up when
birth parents challenge the system.
No state
legislator or leader of a mainstream “child advocacy” group coming out of the
woodwork to say what they always say when the system traumatizes birth families:
Yes, what happened is unfortunate, but we have to balance “parents rights”
against child safety.
On the contrary: The whole thrust of the Investigate
West story is that this horrible treatment of foster parents is going to
drive them away, and then boy will we be sorry! So there!
With no sense of
irony, the co-president of the Foster Parents Association of Washington State
complains that
Once you get
crosswise with the department, it’s really, really, really difficult to get
back to where you want to be.
Getting the
priorities right
Investigate West
even finds a way to effectively blame the problems of foster parents on – birth
parents! The story quotes a family police agency supervisor who
said he’s heard
foster parents increasingly express feeling underappreciated in their role in
recent years, perhaps partially as an unintended consequence of Washington
policy shifting to prefer kinship placements and increase family
reunifications.
“If kids can be
with family, relatives, neighbors or friends, that’s going to do a better job
in a lot of cases of being less disruptive to that child’s life,” [the
supervisor] said. But, “I think the context of this is that foster parents kind
of feel forgotten about and pushed to the bottom of the pile, by not just the
agency, but the whole state. When the reality is, we absolutely need them.”
So, in other words, the real purpose of the foster system
is to pander to the egos and rescue fantasies of stranger foster parents.
If, on the other
hand, you believe the purpose of the foster system is to help
children,
then the priorities that supervisor describes are exactly right: Keeping
children in their own families is almost always
better for children’s wellbeing – and safer
– than placement with stranger foster parents.
When that truly isn’t possible, kinship foster care has been shown to be
far better than placement with strangers.
So yes, stranger foster care parents should be a lower priority – in
fact the only worse option is group homes and institutions.
Good foster
parents, the ones who really care about the kids, get that.
Are foster
parents persecuted?
As for foster
parents being persecuted, the evidence suggests otherwise. As of 2019, the most
recent year for which I could find data, Washington State claimed to find abuse
in only 0.06% of foster homes. If that
figure is correct, it means if you put 1,666 former Washington State foster
children in a room and asked: “How many of you were abused during your last
year in foster care?” only one would raise her or his hand.
In contrast,
independent studies, including one specific to Washington State and Oregon,
consistently find abuse in one-quarter to one-third of foster homes (and the
rate in group homes and institutions is even worse.) That’s a rate at least 400 times higher than
what Washington State’s family police agency claims to find. (In fairness, the studies generally cover the
entire time a child is in foster care, and, on average, children are trapped in
foster care for a little under two years.
On the other hand, the study methodology often excludes some kinds of
abuse. But, just to give Washington State the benefit of the doubt, let’s not
just double but triple their official single-year estimate. Then the independent studies find only 133
times more abuse in foster care.)
PERCENT OF CHILDREN ABUSED IN FOSTER CARE
So if there is a systematic campaign by the Washington State family
police agency to persecute foster parents with false allegations of child abuse
– they’re not very good at it.
The vast undercount
of abuse in foster care is precisely because when they investigate abuse in
foster care family police agencies are, in effect, investigating themselves. After all, they put the child in the home
where she or he was abused. It’s also
because they don’t want to lose foster homes, and go through all the work of
finding new placements for foster children.
So when it comes to abuse in foster care, there is an enormous incentive
for caseworkers to see no evil, hear no evil, speak no evil and write no evil
in the case file.
And remember:
Washington State is where a stranger foster mother and foster grandmother could
allegedly
kidnap the foster child in their care
and flee all the way to Vietnam, and it was days before the family police
agency even noticed. I probably do need
to remind you, since Investigate West never bothered to cover that
story. Neither did the Seattle Times. You can be sure had birth parents kidnapped
their child from a foster home, both news organizations would be all over the
story – and Investigate West would do a huge feature about foster parents
“living in fear.”
The story about
Zarate isn’t even the first pity-the-poor-falsely-accused-foster-parents story Investigate
West has done. They did essentially the same story in 2020 (and I wrote
pretty much the same blog post in response).
No one should have
to endure what Silvia Zarate endured.
But it would have been easier to sympathize if at some point she’d said
something like this: “I wonder sometimes, did I do this to any families on my
caseload? Did I get it wrong, substantiate an allegation when I shouldn’t have,
and put some other family through this? Did
I inadvertently traumatize their children? And if this is how horrible it is
for me, what is it like for birth parents who can’t fight back?”
And if there really
is a systematic campaign to persecute foster parents it would have been nice if
someone at Investigate West had thought to say: “They really need foster
parents – if this is how foster parents are treated, how are they treating birth
parents – and what is that doing to their children? Maybe we should do a story about that.”
But there is
nothing like that in the story from either Zarate nor the head of the foster
parents association. Either they didn’t
say it, or they did but it never got into the story.
There is only a
hint that some of this may have occurred to Zarate. She’s not actually quoted, but the reporter
does say:
Zarate said she
hopes the department takes impacts such as she’s endured more seriously when
approaching investigations of foster parents as well as biological parents.
The words
“biological parents” (and biological is pejorative, by the way) are
words # 1,730 and 1,731 in a 1,761-word story.